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Beware of the Sexual Energy Vampires or Energy is Information or Narrative, Story is the meaning you make of that information

I’ve had many clients tell me the story of how their relationship was going wrong. What they couldn’t see was how easy it is to mistake the energy of lust for love. I’d like to introduce you to a shamanic way of thinking about relationships a way of making sense about what is going wrong …

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Introducing StoryOS

Your internal dialogue, that inner voice is a story making machine. It’s telling you stories about what happened to you in the past and what is going to happen to you in the future. This internal dialogue is you having a conversation with yourself about what you expect to happen. You are this internal dialogue …

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Turning Yourself On – Becoming Alive to Possibility – The Art of Thinking Differently – Waking Up the Inner Coach Inside of You part 6

Being charged with life energy is erotic – but that’s not the same as being sexually turned on. Many people haven’t yet learned to tell the difference between sexuality and sensuality. You can be turned on by someone’s excitement – they’ve just had some wonderful news and have shared it with you. You can be …

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Defining and Designing Yourself – The Story of You – The Art of Thinking Differently – Waking Up the Inner Coach Inside of You part 5

Your Inner Coach is the Future You that you have become that is fully realised in all dimensions. You are a multidimensional person yet we don’t think of ourselves this way. Often we go I want to look great – that’s my dream. That’s the fantasy because if we looked absolutely gorgeous we’d be sexually …

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Getting Unstuck using the Feeling Thinking Loop™ – The Story Making Process – The Art of Thinking Differently – Waking Up the Inner Coach Inside of You part 4

Where people get stuck is they don’t know there is a Feeling Thinking Loop and so get lost in a degenerative spiral. Something happens – things don’t go the way you want, so you feel bad or unhappy about that. Those feelings then prime your thinking so now your next thought is negatively biased and …

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Primal Stories – Death. Food. Sex. The stories that unconsciously drive you – How you are so out of control. The Art of Thinking Differently – Waking Up the Inner Coach Inside of You part 3

If there were no social control, if society didn’t exist or if you’ve had a few too many drinks the primal stories take control. But in reality, they are in control all the time anyway and most of the time you don’t know it you just respond and react. The primal animal in you responds. …

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Building Your Own Happy Ever After – Why Success Can Be Worse Than Failure – The Secret Nobody Wants You To Know. The Art of Thinking Differently – Waking Up the Inner Coach Inside of You part 2

You have to disrupt yourself or others will do it for you – Steve Jobs. In a world where disruption is the new norm are you building your own happy ever after? What?? Isn’t that where the story ends? You know the story – boy meets girl or girl meets boy and he’s really a …

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Story and Hypnosis – The Art of Thinking Differently – Waking Up the Inner Coach Inside of You part 1

You are built from story. This is how your Inner Architecture is constructed – you experience something and that forms a neurological connection. It’s called neuroplasticity – you wire your brain from the experiences you have. These are experiences you have externally out in the world – you are frightened by a large dog as …

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The Real Secret of Charisma – Being a Deviant and Playing By Rules Where You Can Win

Many of the introverts I work with have the secret (or not so secret) desire to be an extrovert because that symbolises for them everything they think they want. It’s the fantasy of being the movie star/pop star/celebrity who everyone looks at adoringly because they are so charismatic and look like a god or goddess. It’s …

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