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How to make your success in relationships inevitable – And why most people don’t do this.

The secret of how you get yourself to go to the gym is that you decide to go and do just the one exercise you like, maybe that’s a particular machine you enjoy using, or maybe it’s where you get a great view of the lovely young ladies getting all sweaty… But when you tell …

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Introducing Possibility Thinking part 1: How to find the way to win when you think there is no way to win

When I’m talking to personal clients about what they need to do to get into the relationship they want that conversation is about what they are doing in their head, how they think about the problems they have and what they have been doing that works and what they have been doing that doesn’t work. Where …

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Love makes us think creatively, sex makes us think analytically

Jens Förster, Kai Epstude, and Amina Özelsel at the University of Amsterdam have demonstrated that love makes us think differently in that it triggers global processing, which in turn promotes creative thinking and interferes with analytic thinking. Thinking about sex, however, has the opposite effect: it triggers local processing, which in turn promotes analytic thinking and …

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